I read somewhere once, "The easiest way to teach children the value of money is to borrow some from them" -Anonymous
I wonder, at what age can I introduce this concept?
Last Wednesday, my sister and I had to make a trip to her second home, Home Depot. So, I carelessly tell all my boys and my nephew that if they are on their best behavior that I will treat them to ice cream.
While my sister is in the store I check my wallet and realize that I have no money. "Oh well", I think to myself, "there is no way in hell that these little rascals will sit still."
Of course, my sister is out of the store in record time and as she departed from the store, I notice the four boys are sitting in my car still as statues and quiet as mice.
"So do we get ice cream now?" asked the Tank.
My voice actually started to crack as I sorrily told all my troopers, "I don't have any money." But, I quickly assured them that I am positive that we have two different kinds of ice cream in our freezer at home.
"That's ok Mommy," the General said.
Oh! How sweet my heart started to melt.
"Auntie Katie can pay!" the General finished.
Astonished at how fast my heart started to harden, "We don't ask other people to pay for things. That isn't polite."
Missing the point, the General replied, "Fine Mommy, Aunt Katie can hand you the dollars so you can pay if you want."
I told the General that it is not polite to ask people for money to buy you things.
Laughing to the point of tears, my sister decided to chime in, "that's ok buddy. I would gladly give you money for ice cream, but I don't have any either."
My children always seem to be just as quick with their come backs as they are with spending my money. Without wasting a moment, the Tank, frustrated by our exchange suggested, "Let's just drive to Papas house. He ALWAYS has money!"